What would your eulogy be like?

Have you ever given it a thought what your loved ones would be saying about you at your funeral? A good way of defining your purpose in life is to sit down and write your own eulogy. Looking back on a life lived so far brings much clarity on where you have come from and where you want to go.

It is sad to see so many people stuck in a very uncomfortable comfort groove because the fear of the unknown is preventing them from even looking at alternatives.

What I have found is that if we face up to the fear and place full trust in the universe that we are here on earth for a purpose, then the universe will respond in kind.

We are here to grow and develop

It is in becoming our true self that we discover a sense of meaning and belonging.  We are here to develop and grow our consciousness−to become aware of the greater reality. It is part of what the evolutionary program demands of us.

Project yourself ahead in a time machine where you see yourself rocking in an armchair well into your 80s, looking back on your life. What are your greatest regrets? What are the chances missed? Probably the greatest sin would have been a life passed without even attempting the greatest dreams and following the true destiny. How would you feel if you watched a movie about your life on all the opportunities missed and potential not lived?

Going the route of constant self-development, self-reflection, and spiritual growth is immensely rewarding. It is one of the keys to living a purposeful and happy life.

But you will never discover your true calling if you don’t slow down so that you can listen to the whispers from the universe and find a connection to your soul.

It is never too late for change and renewal

Body and mind have an infinite capacity for change and renewal. It is never too late. All the skin in the body is replaced every two to three weeks. The liver renews itself at least once every couple of years and the skeleton once every ten years.

But trauma and toxic emotions can hold us captive for decades, preventing us from moving forward and “becoming” our true self.

Stress and fear start with a thought. But the solution to a problem has never come from running thoughts and monkeys in the head.  These are dark imaginary creations of the mind. Yet the mind has enormous power to create in every direction.

Practising thought discipline

Thought discipline can be practiced. It is normal for negative thoughts, old anger and fears to surface when we spend time alone in solitude. Replacing that dark thought with a positive thought such as gratitude is the first step in the right direction.

Thoughts inevitably turn into beliefs and beliefs turn into action. How are you talking to yourself? What is your inner dialogue? Do you believe that you are worthy? Do you feel deserving of living in abundance, to be loved, appreciated and valued?

With gratitude comes the wisdom that in the bigger picture there is grace−the grace that we are part of a bigger matrix, that everything has meaning, that we are born to learn, grow, and to become. When reverse engineering your life you find out that everything has served a purpose if you give it a different perspective. We are destined to become who we are meant to be.

Reino Gevers – Author – Mentor – Speaker

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One response to “What would your eulogy be like?

  1. Tom Haefele

    Also Reino;-perhaps I was the one, who was looking out for Love like Lindsay Buckingham, who loved Steve Nicks most of all, but the love slipped away…Fleetwood Mac – Big Love (Live: The Dance)

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    Der ist als Gittarist genial, aber “underrated”…

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